I heard this quote tonight on Criminal Minds:
“There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief…and unspeakable love” – Washington Irving
I love that. It makes me think of a Psalm passage:
Psalm 56:8
8You have taken account of my wanderings;
Put my tears in Your bottle
Are they not in Your book?
I have read about “the gift of tears.” I still am learning. But I can’t guess how many times I’ve been kneeling in prayer, or kneeling at mass, and have been moved to tears by the holiness and beauty that washes over me.
I like this little blurb I found online:
The tears shed by those who have received the gift of tears are not shed in desperation or turmoil but rather in peace, thanksgiving and rejoicing, in offering the eternal eucharist of the heart where unceasingly we watch and pray. For many in our modem world the gift of tears is unknown. Fragmentation, loneliness, isolation dominate our lives and we know not our own hearts or the hearts of others. We become strangers to each other and to ourselves and to God. He is at the door awaiting an opportunity to enter. Created in God’s image, however, men and women are icons of the holy one, illuminated by His Grace, animated by the Holy Spirit. We have only to practice metanoia, the turning away from all that is not of God towards God. Then the divine warmth melts all those places within that we’ve been protecting, boarded up over time, numb, inaccessible, cast down in shame.
Our Lord cries to us in the depths of our hearts, “Awake 0 sleeper, rise up from among the dead, and Christ will illumine you”. “And you shall be as I fashioned you, a child of light capable of great compassion and love. And then I will awaken within you my Holy Spirit. You will know the profound love without limits I have for you. And your flow of tears will witness to the melting of frozen places within you. The softening of your tear stained face will be an invitation for me to take up my abode in your heart. I will remove from you all harsh judgement” He says: “Look to my mother, the Theotokos to see her tears as she stood by my cross remembering the words of the holy prophet and righteous elder, Simeon, ‘A sword shall pierce your heart’. Notice how she understands this offering of myself in love for the salvation of the world. See how she treasures all these things in her heart and how her heart becomes a place of offering of herself in prayer, a place of strong silence emanating from and participating in the salvation of the world”.
Slowly we come to understand the true gift of tears as God’s invitation to join in the work of redemption. This gift is given by God’s grace. It visits us gently in the still of the dark night when quietly we are inspired to hold God’s people before Him in prayer. It shakes us abruptly into prayer consciousness in the face of the tempter, potential dangers so that here too, we can be alert and wrap His precious children in the garment of protective prayer. St Silouan, holy monk of Mt Athos, prayed these words: “Merciful Lord, I pray for all the people of the world that they might know Thee by Thy Holy Spirit”. In his struggle with despair, St Silouan was one of us. In his offering of himself to God, he shows us the spiritual path, validating divine adoption, the becoming children of God, each one a child of the fight.
May God deliver us from any hardness of heart, foster within us true humility and love.